Comments on: The Secrecy of Evil (TW: abuse) http://bigumuse.wordpress.com/2012/02/10/the-secrecy-of-evil-tw-abuse/ A geek, her blog, and the internet. Tue, 10 Jul 2012 13:24:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Lady Copper http://bigumuse.wordpress.com/2012/02/10/the-secrecy-of-evil-tw-abuse/#comment-311 Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:12:21 +0000 http://bigumuse.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-311 Thanks for this post! I grew up in a home with *some* abuse issues from parents who did not fit the normal profile of abusers. It took me a long time to realize they had abused me, because I knew very well how much they loved me at the same time. I think to truly grow up, each person has to realize that their parents are not perfect, and that if you say you are going to improve on some way they raised you, it is a COMPLIMENT to their parenting in a way – they succeeded in getting the next generation to be ever better!

Anyway, I’m sorry you went through so much as a kid and hope you are well now. I went looking for some sanity after watching that video and reading the awful congratulatory comments.

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